Fraysexual

Contributions by: Rust&Stardust

Definitions and Usage
Fraysexual describes sexual attraction that fades as one gets to know the individual they're attracted to. This isn't "normal" attraction. A fraysexual's attraction may stop long before a relationship is possible, ruling out the idea of it being the typical "honeymoon period". It can also be described as the exclusive sexual attraction to people the fraysexual does not know or is not close to. The fray- prefix comes from the Old English word for "stranger".

Related Terms
As part of the asexual spectrum, fraysexual can be compared to other labels. Akoisexual can be mistaken for fraysexual as well, as they both can result in the fading of attraction over time; however, akoisexual has to do with the reciprocation of said attraction, while fraysexual refers to the emotional distance instead. The opposite of fraysexual is demisexual, and the fray- prefix can be attached to other modes of attraction, like romantic or alterous.

Flags
The blue and cyan colors are purposely inverted tones of reds and yellows, two colors often associated with romance and attraction. The white stripe represents the lack of attraction, and the grey stripe represents the asexual spectrum and confusion around one's orientation. In the variant, the additional purple stripe specifies the fact that is is the fraysexual flag, not frayalterous or frayromantic.